Let go of the grave clothes: Easter Message from Rev Langley

We like to think that the resurrection solved everything for the disciples. Sadly, it did not. It takes time for our minds to focus away from the all-consuming grief that comes from our witnessing death, or hearing word of it. In Mark’s gospel, the women prepare to anoint a dead body, and are more concerned with how they will roll the burial stone away. They arrive to find that the problem has been solved for them. Having heard news from the angel that Jesus has risen, they leave not in joy but in confusion, terror, and fear, tinged with amazement. In Mark’s gospel we read how the other women were so overcome with mourning and weeping that when Mary tells them that Jesus is alive, they will not believe. In John’s gospel, Mary Magdalene assumes that someone had stolen the body. Her grief is so locked in that even when Jesus speaks to her, she does not recognise him. Not until He says her name. Whilst He does break through with Mary, the disciples – let’s not forget that the women were disciples as well – were in death mode, unable to comprehend what had happened. Who can blame them?

As I walked through Good Friday to Easter Sunday, a phrase would not leave my mind. ‘Let go of the grave clothes’. Whilst I admit that there is no scriptural reference to support this (the grave clothes are visible in John’s account, but no one touches them), I would suggest that this is an important principle. There is, arguably, a link with Mary who embraces Jesus, leaving Jesus to say, ‘Do not hold on to me, because I have not yet ascended to the Father’. Without seeming to be disrespectful, I am not sure that Jesus is saying that He has so much power in him from the resurrection that Mary is likely to get a lightning bolt if she holds on for any longer. I think it is to do with how the Jesus she is clinging to is far too human in her mind to be of any earthly use. So, ‘Let go of me Mary.’ Or to put it another way, let go of the grave clothes (which were admittedly whiter than white).

This is my word for you, for your church, for us as a circuit. So often, the Jesus we look to, even when we know Him to be resurrected, is far to earthly in our minds to be of any heavenly use. Our God is too small. We are so locked into the expectations of decline and death, that we have little hope of realising the resurrection. And yet Jesus is so much more, and offers us so much more than we can perceive. In our lives, in our churches, in our circuit, we can so often be clinging on to the grave clothes to preserve what has been, rather than looking to Jesus who promises are new way of life; a new way of doing things that will yield results that are far beyond our expectation. The Kingdom of Heaven is come here on earth. Let go of the grave clothes.

God bless you this Easter.

Me, Jesus, and the Church. Seven Episodes where people share how they came to faith, how their faith has supported them in difficult times, and how the Church has been a lifeline.

Videos available on YouTube: Link below

I would like to continue to draw your attention to our most recent series of online interviews – Me, Jesus, and the Church. This provides a means by which we can hear from people about their background and their coming to faith, but also how they have found it invaluable to be part of the church. I sense that this link, especially when we are living in socially distanced times, is hugely important. There are always those who will explain that they are Christians, but they do not feel the need to go to church, or to be connected to church. The stories surfacing through Me, Jesus, and the Church are deeply moving, and we are now at episode four in what will be an eight-episode series.

This week we hear from Susan Halford who began her working life grading eggs and has since worked with figures throughout her working life. In terms of Susan’s faith, the first part of the interview focuses on how conversations with the owners of a local fruit and veg shop, initial involvement in Crowland Methodist Church, and her reading the gospel came together to the point where she gave her life to Jesus. In the second half, Susan shares how she has always found that being part of a small group vital in helping her remain faithful as a Christian. The advantage of these videos of course is that if a church has projection facilities, they are easily accessible. As for who the future contributors might be, I am always open to volunteers (some folk have already offered) but you may find that I approach you to share…. Everyone has a story to tell.

Visit https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLfd1gKrJ4irDkDKdctPFxaw9JEjZn695s to view the full series.

Rethinking what it means to be a Darling.

One of my abiding memories from our recent family holiday is of a boat trip to the Farne Islands during an evening. The operators offered a ‘sunset cruise’. Unfortunately, the sunset did not appear apart from one small part of the sky, and the trip as we bounced up and down in the North Sea, was less than luxury-cruise like. This said, the clouds were dramatic, and I found that every time I changed position the view was different as the light changed.

Shine?Mackrell-Hey 2020

The most powerful thing that struck me was an eery effect when the suns rays penetrated through, reflected off what seemed like an oily black sea, and illuminated the underside of the heavy cloud in the sky to the point that you could see their texture. It reminded me, in a strange way, of how as Christians we can be living in less than ideal settings, buffeted by the waves (spot the  link with this week’s gospel reading), we nonetheless have within us the light of Christ that can illuminate and beautify the storm clouds that are above us, and in doing so point to our creator. I will stop there before the poetry continues but do be encouraged.

Shine/Mackrell-Hey 2020

Another moving moment was how the story of Grace Darling (from which we have the term ‘you are such a darling’, hit home as we surveyed the rocks which tore the Forfarshire steamer apart in 1838. It was Grace who spotted the wreck from her bedroom in the early hours of the morning and alerted her Father. The storm was so bad that they deemed it unsafe for any lifeboat but nonetheless ventured out in their 6-metre rowing boat. In the first wave, Grace and her father saved three people, with Grace steadying the boat. In the second wave, they saved another four. One lifeboat, launched from the ship independently, was found later the next day.

By Thomas Musgrave Joy – [1], Public Domain, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=28870049

Be in no doubt, there was a tragic loss of life, and only a fraction survived. I am not sure what moved me the most; the loss of life; the fact that you could see the Grace Darling’s bedroom in the lighthouse from our boat – and the knowledge that her attentiveness saved lives; or the scale of Grace Darling’s legacy; her actions inspired our nation in the values of bravery and simple virtue – and this was compounded by the fact that it sat so uneasily on her humble shoulders. Ultimately, I feel that it was the scenery which brought the scene to life, and served as a reminder that whilst we may feel powerless in the face of a calamity, our attentiveness, and our willingness to be brave and do our part, will save lives. As I reflect today, it serves as a reminder to everyone involved in our local churches to be attentive the needs of those who surround us.  

Today, our storm is the pandemic, and we will make a difference.

Dragonfly: A new model, developed by Rev Dale Sherriff, for exploring how as Christians we need to gather in different ways.

Emperor Dragonfly, Ken Billington, Wikipedia

There has been one recent development in the circuit that has excited me. I share it with you even though it is very much in its infancy. Last Sunday at our Pioneer Hub, Rev Dale Sherriff, one of our supernumerary ministers who was previously involved with Inspire  (the Methodist movement intent on encouraging people to grow in their discipleship and engagement with mission), shared some of his thinking about how we might encourage people across our circuit. What he had to say seemed to link well with the ‘Tending to our Roots’ aspects of our ‘Reimagine Strategy’ as we continue to look to the future. (Remember the Tree, and the questions about how we develop prayer and small groups?)

Dale’s reflection began as he questioned the different way in which, historically, we have physically gathered as a church. Whilst we cannot do this now, it seemed to me that some of what Dale had to say might be helpful for local church leaders to think about as we come out of isolation. How will we regroup? How will we gather?

As a Methodist Church, we have gathered in four distinct ways in the past. Whilst I use the historic language here, the principles remain true to our heritage.

As a Circuit (for larger gatherings – something which we reintroduced before the pandemic hit.

As local churches (as Sunday or weekday congregations)

As a Class (the class-meeting language is not often used, but in essence a class is a study and fellowship groups which has been as eqally important (if not more important) than gathering for worship services.

As a Band (again the language has fallen out of widespread use, but a band is a group of say three people who pray for each other – we might refer to this as a prayer triplet).

As for the link with the dragonfly? Well the dragonfly has four wings. Every one of them is required, but they can work together and independently. In the same way we could envisage that these are rather like the four different ways in which people can gather. I should mention of course that the pastoral system of the Methodist Church runs alongside this, but at one time all pastoral groups met as classes. Some still do of course. However, as a way of helping understand the balance we are looking for as we look to the future, this way of thinking may be helpful for many.

The words Class and Band may need revisiting. It may be that using the term Life Group might be more appropriate. Many churches offer fellowship groups, but in time, as we return from lockdown, we may want to question how we can expand and encourage the work in our existing groups. How might they be enhanced to balance spiritual nurture and fellowship? Likewise, could this be a time where we look at encouraging more prayer triplets in our churches? I love the idea of remembering, not least in light of the Coronavirus Pandemic, that Jesus promises Life in all its Fullness (John 10:10). Could these ideas help us as seek to capitalise on the increased depth and scope of engagement in our churches? I merely share this as an idea that is stirring within me….

Eucharistic Prayer of Thanksgiving linked to the Parable of the Talents

This prayer of thanksgiving blends themes that arise from Jesus’ Parable of the Talents, with those of communion, as we remember how God invests His life in us by sending His Son to die on the cross. Whilst giving thanks, it reminds us of how God our Father longs for us to find our wholeness and completeness in Him, and of how we are to use the gifts that He has given us, rather than keep them within ourselves. This theme is extended to remind us all of the dangers of burying our tradition (in the mistaken belief that our tradition is preserved by standing still). As the prayer unfolds, I issue a reminder of how despite our tendency to try and live independently, and/or invest only in ourselves, God remains faithful and His grace abounds. The closing part of the prayer, before moving on to recite the words and actions of Jesus, reminds us that if we can invest but a grain of faith in the work of God, we will see great dividends. It invites the hearer to be encouraged by those who have gone before them and discovered this truth for themselves.

One final addition comes after the prayer of consecration, where I look to encourage those who face challenging times by asking God to help us all live free from fear.

Feel free to adapt as necessary….

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Almighty God.
You created the heavens and the earth.
You scattered the seed of love throughout our world.
You invest your breath, your life in us.
You form us into a people who reflect your grace and glory.
You yearn for us to find our completeness in you.

Today we remember the sacrifice of Jesus your Son,
who died on the cross so that our sins might be forgiven,
that we might find our peace with you.
We acknowledge that you expect a return on your investment in us.
We remember that we must not bury the gifts you give us.
Or worse still, bury our tradition, valuing preservation over consecration.
We remember your promise, and declare our faith,
that you will return and bring restoration to our broken world.
And that although Christ has died
Christ is risen, and Christ will come again.

We remember your faithfulness down the generations
Of how you sent prophets and priests to guide your people.
And of how, despite our tendency to try and live independently of you,
or to invest in only ourselves, you sent Jesus, your Son, to walk alongside us.
He has shown us how life will be different
if we can but only find a grain of faith to invest in you.
As we gather, we remember those who have gone before us
who have seen this truth revealed.
Those who are with us now, whom we cannot see,
who join with us in worship, prayer and service.
Who together with us, and the angels and archangels
praise you, and proclaim the eternal truth…

Holy, Holy, Holy, Lord
God of Power and might
Heaven and earth are full of your glory
Hosanna in the highest
Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord
Hosanna in the highest

We remember how, on the night before he died…..
After supper he took the cup….

And so, in remembrance of his mighty acts,
we offer you these gifts of bread and wine,
and with them ourselves,
as a holy living sacrifice.

You send forth your spirit
You bind us in love
You renew the face of the earth.

Pour out your Holy Spirit
So that these gifts of bread and wine may be transformed,
and may become for us the body and blood of Jesus Christ.
Help us to sense your presence.
Whatever challenges we face in our lives,
dispel all fear of what the future might hold.
As we unite and share with one another.
Help us to remember our shared mission to all the world,
and move forward in boldness,
mindful that you will bring us with the whole creation
to your heavenly kingdom.

Through Christ, with Christ, in Christ
in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
all blessing and honour and glory and power
be yours for ever and ever, Amen

The bread is broken in the sight of the people.

We break this bread to share in the body of Christ

Though we are many, we are one body
because we all share in the one bread.

Orton Waterville Methodist Church Anniversary & Day of Pentecost – Eucharistic Prayer

PRAYER OF THANKSGIVING:
Pentecost

The Lord be with you:
And also with you
Lift up your hearts:
We lift them to the Lord
Let us give thanks to the Lord our God:
It is right to give Him thanks and praise

God our Father in heaven and here on earth
You move upon us now
as you did on the day of creation.
You breathe new life into us.
You long for us to become your holy people,
living and loving by your commands.
You cleanse us with your holy fire.

When our world becomes oppressive,
you reveal yourself as our comforter,
our helper,
our friend,
and our advocate.
When we face uncertainty
or feel overcome by a cacophony of competing voices,
you speak with clarity,
bringing peace and calm.
When we are ridiculed or oppressed for our faith,
You reveal yourself in Word and deed,
exposing the brittleness of human wisdom.
Throughout the ages,
you have sent priests and prophets
to reassure us of your presence,
and remind us of your Word.
Despite our failings,
your love remains steadfast.
You refuse to turn us away and leave us as orphans.
Abiding in Jesus, your Son,
you came to Earth.
By your death on the Cross,
you show how love can conquer all.
By your resurrection,
you show yourself to be truly divine.
By your tender embrace,
you show yourself to be truly human.
By your words,
you declare that we are forgiven.
Through the work of your Spirit,
you renew us, direct us,
and give us hope for the future.

And so, with the angels and the archangels, with the choirs of heaven,
and with all who have gone before us, we declare:

Holy, holy, holy Lord, God of power and might,
heaven and earth are full of your glory
Hosanna in the highest.
Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord.
Hosanna in the highest.

For generations,
this church has gathered to remember the final meal that
Jesus shared with his disciples.
We remember how they, like us at times, felt insecure,
even fearful of the future,
and longing for your Kingdom to come.
We remember how Jesus gave new life to an ancient rite

We recall how, Jesus took the bread, gave thanks, broke it,
and gave it to his disciples saying
‘Take eat, this is my body, given for you.
Do this in remembrance of me.’
And how after supper, he took the cup of wine,
gave thanks, and gave it to them saying,
‘Drink from this all of you. This is my blood of the new covenant,
poured out for all people for the forgiveness of sins.
Do this in remembrance of me’.

We remember with sorrow how Jesus was betrayed by one of our own.
We remember that he was nailed to a tree, and died.
But we rejoice at the truth of his resurrection.
His ascension to heaven
and his promise to return.

Therefore, as we remember God’s faithfulness in the past,
His presence with us today,
and how our future is at His disposal,
we declare:
Christ has died.
Christ is risen.
Christ will come again.

Loving God, send down your Holy Spirit,
that these gifts of bread and wine may be for us Christ’s body and blood.
Unite us with Christ, refashion us as your people,
and bring us with all creation, to inherit your eternal kingdom.

We break this bread to share in the body of Christ
Jesus Christ is Lord. May the Spirit have his way with us. Praise be to God.

Communion Prayer of Thanksgiving for the 6th Sunday of Easter: The Promise of the Spirit.

The Lord be with you:
And also with you
Lift up your hearts:
We lift them to the Lord
Let us give thanks to the Lord our God:
It is right to give Him thanks and praise

God our Father,
Creator of the Heavens and the Earth,
your Spirit crafts beauty from chaos.
You make us in your image
and form us into your likeness.
When the deceiver comes
your Spirit convicts us
and leads us in the way of truth.
You yearn for us to become your holy people
who will live and love by your command.

When we are enslaved,
you become our advocate,
exposing the oppressor’s illusion of power.
You lead us to freedom,
parting the seas that would overwhelm us.
You send priests and prophets
to reassure us of your presence,
and to remind us of your Word.
You confound all human wisdom.
You reveal yourself as the God of love –
the God of relationship,
whose greatness can never be reflected
in stone or precious jewel.

Despite our failures
your love remains steadfast.
You refuse to turn us away
and leave us orphaned.
Abiding in Jesus your Son,
you came to Earth.
By your death on the Cross,
you show how love can conquer all.
By your resurrection,
you demonstrate your divinity.
Through your tender embrace,
you show yourself to be truly human
By your Word,
you declare that we are forgiven.
Through the work of your Spirit,
you renew us, direct us,
and give us hope for the future.

And so, with the angels and the archangels,
with the choirs of heaven,
and with all who have gone before us, we declare:

Holy, holy, holy Lord, God of power and might,
heaven and earth are full of your glory
Hosanna in the highest.
Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord.
Hosanna in the highest.

As we gather, we remember how,
on the night before our Saviour was betrayed by one of his own
and put to death by those who wanted to extinguish your plans,
Jesus gathered with those, who like us, were perplexed, or felt insecure,
and gave new life to an ancient rite.

He took the bread, gave thanks, broke it,
and gave it to his disciples saying
‘Take eat, this is my body, given for you.
Do this in remembrance of me.’

After supper, he took the cup of wine,
gave thanks, and gave it to them saying,
‘Drink from this all of you. This is my blood of the new covenant,
poured out for all people for the forgiveness of sins.
Do this in remembrance of me.’

As we remember God’s faithfulness in the past,
His presence with us today,
and how our future is at His disposal,
we declare:

Christ has died
Christ is Risen
Christ will come again.

Loving God,
send down your Holy Spirit,
that these gifts of bread and wine
may be for us Christ’s body and blood.
Accept our lives as a sacrifice of praise to you.
Unite us with Christ,
refashion us as your people,
and bring us with all creation,
to inherit your eternal kingdom.

The bread is broken in the sight of the people

We break this bread to share in the body of Christ
Jesus Christ is Lord. May His spirit have his way with us. Praise be to God.

Reflections on Cafe Worship and how it can improve the depth of teaching and quality of engagement for those who attend.

At our last Local Preachers and Worship Leaders meeting we talked about alternative worship, and in specific café worship. But what is café worship, and how might we prepare for it? I have some empathy with this, since I think I have only attended one or two different cafe worship services myself. Thankfully, there is plenty of information on the Fresh Expressions website outlining how café worship can be a valid expression of worship and church. As I reflected on how I would plan my own cafe worship at a local church, and what worked in practice, I am minded that there are some things that can be done in this environment that would be harder to achieve in our usual settings.

I began preparing by questioning how the layout of, and activity in café worship might improve the quality of engagement and depth of teaching that we aspire towards on Sunday mornings. This is not to say that one is better or worse than the other. It is to say that each has their own strengths. I began to suspect that, done well, café worship might provide:

  • A helpful space in which the fellowship of the church and the likelihood of building relationships becomes easier (meeting for food and drink always brings people together).
  • A means by which we can encourage people to share their faith, and enter into discussion (because people can sit face to face in smaller groups).
  • A way of incorporating tactile activity such as craft (tables provide a surface, whereas pews/chairs do not).
  • Learning at greater depth, because different groups of people can reflect on different aspects of a story/theme, and their findings can be collated with ease.
  • In general, a greater willingness to reflect in creative and fresh ways. Whilst I hope that this would be the case in any service, it is helpful to have a space where ‘permission’ for this to happen has been given by the congregation.

Planning Café worship – linking with a worship leader

It has been some time since I have led café worship at Brookside Methodist Church, but I was able to offer myself on Easter Sunday. Brookside offered a worship leader to assist. She shared earlier in the week how she had been thinking about the ‘stone from the tomb being rolled away’, and what ‘stones’ might symbolise for those who would be present. She had already thought about how café worship could use a prayer activity which symbolised how, by the power of the Holy Spirit, God could remove that which burdened us. I think that this is significant; café worship began with a member of the congregation who was already thinking about the theme. This naturally matched the Easter story in the gospels. We agreed that I would lead the opening worship and the teaching, and she would select the songs and lead a prayer activity.

Planning Café worship – thinking about teaching

Introduction

I was mindful of Hope Revolution and their link with Guvana B, a Christian Gospel/Rap Artist who has won major awards. As part of his ministry, Guvna B has produced a music video entitled ‘Cannonball’ that incorporates powerful sketch/art cartoon illustrations, and some stunning lyrics. I asked the Church to prepare and play the video by passing the internet link to them. Anyone who uses a PC or a tablet can search and find material (but I appreciate that not all local preachers are skilled in doing this, or that all churches are able to do this – but I am sure that there would be help available provided you plan in good time). I printed the lyrics out separately – because they flowed so quickly.

Teaching

I have been studying John’s gospel as part of the Lent Course – and I found myself naturally comparing John’s version of events with the other gospel writers. In terms of where the teaching might be headed I thought it would be useful to focus (a) on the ‘supernatural’ signs of God’s presence that were present in each account, and (b) to ask people the question, ‘In spiritual terms, what might the ‘stone’ represent?’ This would be the core of the teaching and reflection.

Café worship at Brookside takes place around tables, and as I thought things through I realised that it would be easier to (a) print out different gospel accounts in different colours and cut away all margins – this simply makes life easier, and (b) each table could have a different account and work through these questions independently, in two stages; so we took the first question; people discussed on their own; then we collated all of our thoughts from each table. We then repeated the process with the second question.

This is a good example of where we allow the congregation to feedback, and our job as preachers is to ‘fill in the gaps’ that are missed.  In my case I also wanted to set the second conversation on the right trajectory by pointing out what John in his gospel omits; no earthquake, no temple curtain split, no guards (I drew from my earlier preparation for morning worship here, where I had noted that in Matthew, the resurrection miracle begins the minute Jesus dies, with the earthquake opening the graves and the dead being raised to new life). I make the point that whilst these things are significant, John omits them because he does not need them to put his argument across – and that indeed, if he did include them they may well have complicated his presentation. John is interested in telling us that Jesus is the Son of God (we remembered the ‘I am’ sayings), and that he wants us to do four things; recognise Jesus, accept Jesus, make our peace with Jesus, and follow Jesus’ calling. This then leads nicely into the second section, where we question what the stone might stand for – what prevents this from happening? I was also able to show how the fact that Jesus has been resurrected slowly dawned on some of the characters in the story (note how in Luke, the apostles did not believe the women – although the story is told slightly differently elsewhere. In John, Peter and the beloved disciple believed when they looked into the grave, but there was no evidence that they believed Jesus had been resurrected, they just believed Mary’s was speaking the truth when she said that Jesus body had gone!)

It may be worth noting that as well as the teaching having depth because we were looking and comparing four different gospel sources (this is something that instantly beings a level of maturity to our reading, treatment and interpretation of scripture), I was also minded link with the Old Testament as particular themes surfaced. For example, the concept of having a ‘heart of stone’ is within Jer 32 (and we also remembered how God transforming our heart of stone is a key lyric in ‘I The Lord of Sea and Sky’). If the theme of ‘oppression’ were to surface there are multiple entry points, but the most obvious is the release of Israel from slavery. As I spoke of John’s focus on the ‘I am’ sayings of Jesus, I referred to Moses experience of the burning bush.

Thus, when I have led café worship, I both respond to what the congregation are saying by providing further explanation, and steering the conversation towards a focal point in prayer.

Café Worship: Enabling encounter

In a sense, the entire act of worship is designed to encounter God, but for the prayers, people were invited to hold a stone (originally people were going to write on a stone or paint it and to perhaps mark it with the symbol of an experience or feeling that was holding us back from God). As we remembered the opening theme of ‘Cannonball’ (that Jesus is like a cannonball from heaven who crashes to earth and destroys death and all that oppresses), people were invited to take their stone and place it on a bowl of water. The worship leader walked everyone through this activity, and shared how the stone was symbolic of the shattered (or moved) stones of the cemetery, and of how God cleanses us and removes the blemishes that are upon us.

The sample order of service

The service lasted about an hour and a quarter. I noticed how, rather like Messy Church, the adults helped the younger children to take part – and how their input at times was enthusiastic and profound. The order, with the songs interspersed, looked like this:

Intro to theme: Jesus as a cannonball/God longing to release us from all that oppresses. The stone was rolled away. Today we will think about how God was present in power, and we will also think about what the stone might symbolise for us

Cannonball video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jI-ZtaSOGkA 

Langley highlight the lyrics (which will be on the table)

Resurrection reading from Luke’s gospel

2 Songs on Video – God sent his Son (Because he Lives); Up from the grave he rose

…..eating cake and drinking tea is possible from now – note however, everyone munched all the way through, but I do not think that this limited discussion/engagement.

Encourage people to look at other passages (printed out) and discuss – Matthew 28:1-15; Matthew 27:50-54; Mark 16:1-20; John 20; 3-29 (Each can fit on a single sheet).

What are the supernatural signs from God?

Feedback and dialogue

What does the stone stand for?

Feedback and dialogue

Prayer activity – Worship Leader

Song – Rejoice Rejoice

Repeat of Cannonball video.

 

Refection: What was prominent and what was less so?

Whilst the teaching and reflection elements of the service were strong (I am not sure of any regular services where we have been able to present all four accounts of a single gospel event), prayer was focused, albeit concentrated, in one area. If I were to do this again, I would probably incorporate a prayer of confession and the Lord’s Prayer towards the end of the prayer activity. Even so, there were aspects of penitence in the stone exercise. Prayers for each other, or the needs of the wider world were also not particularly prominent. This said, the service would have been ideal for people who were exploring faith. In its current form the service is for leaders and churchgoers who are seeking worship that engages them differently. The service was also very strong on fellowship and avoided any notion or pretence that could get in the way – about wear people should sit, how they should behave etc.

Perhaps one of my ongoing apprehensions is how you lead worship, and perhaps work though some important teaching point whilst everyone is eating cakes. This said, my experience was that this did not detract. I did however have to think about how I minimised movement during the worship – because movement distracts when you are trying to prevent, and also makes noise. I did this by suggesting that people loaded up on coffee/tea at the beginning of the table exercises.

What surprised me?

I was most surprised by how the children engaged and how the adults enabled this, with the children highlighting the signs from God. I was encouraged (but not surprised) by the depth of analysis that came from each of the tables. There was a depth of contextual understanding which people had gathered from TV programmes – about for example, how the gravestones were designed. I was really pleased to be asked some direct questions; ‘Did the Jews believe in the resurrection’? I was not expecting (but welcomed) a sustained focus on how God brings healing – especially from past hurts, which came from one of our local preachers. This was particularly useful on the lead up to the stones exercise.

Closing remarks

This experience, and my subsequent thoughts, reminds me of the critique made by the Church Army (which is a mission arm of the CofE) about how established Churches have the tendency to overplay the importance of ‘function’ and underplay the importance of ‘relationship’. To put it simply, whilst I can ask myself questions about what the worship included (as if we need to complete all items in some checklist for an act of worship to be ‘proper’), this rather misses the point.

Café church, as it unfolded for me, was all about relationships. It begins with the relationships and fellowship that people have with each other. People reflect both individually and together. They gather (just as the first believers did) around the person of Jesus, sharing, and doing life together. There is a clear intent (as should be the case in any form of worship) to bring people to a moment of encounter with God. This raises an interesting question for all our worship preparation – how are we bringing our congregations to this place of encounter? When we share in communion, this focus is clearer, but what about how we move people to a point of encounter and response in our preaching. I must be honest and say that in my own services, the encounter is presumed and sits somewhere after the sermon and before the prayers of intercession.

I think that another important difference between how I approached this café worship service, and how I approach preaching services, is that often in my services (apart from all-age worship) a lot of the focus is on me – or rather (I hope) on God speaking through me. However, in café worship the role of the preacher seems to be to facilitate conversation, with a much greater emphasis on what God is saying through the congregation. However, to prepare for café worship, preachers will need to prepare just as hard (if not more) than they would if they were preparing a regular service. They will also have to be confident with their material to the point that they are comfortable answering questions.

Communion Prayer on Transfiguration Sunday

God who brings transformation beyond that which we can imagine
You created the universe from nothing
By your spirit you breathe life into us
You form us
You transfigure us

Today we remember how your disciples glimpsed your glory in Jesus your Son and we remember how you transfigure us, how, if we will allow it,
your glory might be shown in us.

We remember your faithfulness down the generations
Of how your light is revealed in the dark places
Where your people lacked sight, where they suffered oppression
and of how you promised that in time you would come to save them

We thank you for the gift of Jesus truly human and truly God
Who died for us
We thank you for transfiguration
for change in this life
and we thank you for resurrection
the promise of life after death
when our ageing bodies
battered by a faithful life well lived
and our faces,
marked with the blemishes of compassion and worry
for those we love
will be renewed.

But for now
in the presence of the saints who have gone before us
and the angels that gather alongside us
we sing the eternal hymn

Holy, Holy, Holy, Lord
God of Power and might
Heaven and earth are full of your glory
Hosanna in the highest
Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord
Hosanna in the highest

We remember how, on the night before he died…..
After supper he took the cup….
And so, in remembrance of his mighty acts,
we offer you these gifts
and with them ourselves,
as a holy living sacrifice.

You send forth your spirit
You bind us in love
You renew the face of the earth.

Pour out your Holy Spirit
That these gifts of bread and wine
May be for us the body and blood of Jesus Christ.
Help us to taste your glory
as we unite and share with one another.
Help us to remember our shared mission to all the world
and bring us with the whole creation to your heavenly kingdom.

Through Christ, with Christ, in Christ
in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
all blessing and honour and glory and power
be yours for ever and ever, Amen

The bread is broken in the sight of the people.

We break this bread to share in the body of Christ

Though we are many, we are one body
because we all share in the one bread.